“If she doesn’t make it through emergency surgery, let me know. Otherwise, don’t waste my time,” my husband said to the doctor without a hint of emotion.
PART 1 “If she doesn’t make it through surgery, call me. Otherwise, don’t bother me again,” my husband said outside the emergency room. Those two sentences ended twelve years of marriage more completely than any signed divorce paper ever could. I lay behind a hospital curtain, unable to move without pain. Both arms were immobilized,…